what i want to know
is this:
if you have a friend with questionable morals and an unstable value system, what do you do?
if you have a friend with questionable morals and an unstable value system, what do you do?
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7 comments:
It made me think..and I'm still thinking what will I do ..
Well, I guess I will still be her friend. I say so because I've a close friend who is going around with a married man! And still she's is my good friend!
nm - i guess there are varying degrees... i feel like i have been guilty of condoning such behaviour outwardly by just not castigating it.
it isn't clear to me how one should react to such a situation, and also how long i should allow their ill actions to follow them.
and also - am i someone to judge?
well, certainly if their actions are hurting someone, you should point this out to them, and advise them to stop.
Am I the one you are talking about?
:(
adu - i don't know. if the person is doing it knowingly - if they know that they're lying, how do *you* change yourself to accommodate that?
red - don't be an idiot :).
hmm...but knowledge of the fact that you and possibly others think they're doing something wrong (they may not realize this and may think what they're doing is somehow justified) --- might give them some pause to think.
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